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buying into “I’m behind”? That ends now.

You’re just getting started.

Society lied to you. There’s no deadline, no rulebook, and no reason to settle for less than you deserve just because you’ve reached your 30s and still haven’t ticked off the milestones (you know the ones: engagement, marriage, baby, homeowner). It’s time to stop doubting your worth, start owning your desires, and unapologetically create the life you *actually* want to live. Ready? LFG.

stop settling for "ok"

raise your standards

become the love of your life

stop settling for "ok" • raise your standards • become the love of your life •

ready to make your 30s the most empowering decade of your life?

It’s time to drop the “I’m behind” thinking, raise the standards for all areas of your life, stop giving af about what anyone else thinks and break up with the idea that you have to settle for “ok”. Trust me, you don’t. 

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meet your mentor

Hi, I’m Rebecca Hawkes

Confidence Coach, Podcaster and walking proof that you can hit rock bottom and still bounce tf back higher than ever.

Whether you’re looking for your confidence comeback after a life event has knocked you for six (think: breakup, grief, an identity crisis after turning 30), you’re looking to build a more stable confidence foundation so the slightest little knock doesn’t set you back six months, or you’ve got goals so big you’ve been nicknamed “the delusional one” by the people in your family who’ve never quite got you, I’m here to hold your hand and give you the guidance you need to live the reality you’ve always desired and deserved.

But first, let’s get to know each other on a deeper level, shall we?

Work With me

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    The Standard Is You

    A 12-week coaching programme to help you stop feeling behind, raise your standards, and become the love of your life in your 30s

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    Confident AF

    A safe space that empowers you to overcome obstacles, face your fears and take action towards living your life in the way you truly desire (and always deserved)

HOW TO GET STARTED

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Browse Offerings

Browse my Offerings and decide which service works best for you.

Book a Call

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If you would like 1:1 Coaching or have any questions, let’s chat!

Let’s get started

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Whether you’re working through my programs, or 1:1 with me, Let’s go!

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DIY Workbooks

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    Financial Freedom

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    Scripting With Soul

    A workbook created to teach you exactly how to magic music and fairy blue up love and wishing wells, tame dragons, matcha fairy wing tea yes lorem.

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    3-6-9 Workbook

    A workbook created to teach you exactly how to magic music and fairy blue up love and wishing wells, tame dragons, matcha fairy wing tea yes lorem.

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Download the confidence kit

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