Meet YOUR mentor
Hi, I’m Rebecca Hawkes
Coach, Creator and walking proof that you can hit rock bottom and still bounce tf back higher than ever.
About Me
My Story
At 18, I was too scared to leave my house. By 20, I was backpacking around the world solo. I lived in Thailand for a year, Australia for two and when I moved to Honduras for 18 months in 2017, I started my online business, first as a SMM then a Confidence Coach.
Fast forward to 29: I’m back in the UK, my 5 year relationship ended out of nowhere, I’m living with my mum, my younger brother’s just announced his engagement and my best mate’s told me he’s having a baby. And if that wasn’t enough to make me feel more behind in life than ever, the pandemic happened so this adventuring Sagittarius had no way out.
Yet, as I enter my 34th year and find myself still in the UK (single & still living with mum, by choice), I’ve never felt more confident in myself, more comfortable in my own skin, or more grateful for the life I’ve created for myself. Over the past 5 years I’ve watched friends buy houses, have babies, get engaged, and my brother get married and have kids, yet the thoughts of “I’m behind” or “it’s too late for me” are long gone.
My secret?
I chose to break up with the societal beliefs & expectations that were making me miserable, and decided to become the standard for my own life. So whilst I trust that my Nobody Wants This relationship is destined for my future, my bank account will have more zeros than I can imagine and I’ll make the impact with my career I’ve dreamed of since I was a little girl, I’m not so obsessed with the timeline that I can’t enjoy my present.
If everything on your vision board is destined to become your reality, why tf would you stress about when it’s going to happen when you know that life is inevitable for you?
how I did it
becoming my own standard
building Unshakeable self-worth
breaking up with societal beliefs
creating boundaries worth sticking to
treating myself as the love of my life
staying connected to my personal vision
challenging my inner narrative regularly
practising self compassion & self kindness
walking away from things that don’t serve me
BECOMING confident af in who I am & what I desire
Refusing to settle for anything I don’t truly want
Raising the standards I have for all areas of my life
Strengthening the belief that what I desire is inevitable
silencing outside noise including other people’s expectations
Work With me
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The standard is you
A 12-week group coaching programme to help you stop feeling behind, raise your standards, and become the love of your life in your 30s
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confident af
A safe space that empowers you to overcome obstacles, face your fears and take action towards living your life in the way you truly desire (and always deserved)