Ever scrolled through Instagram, seen a perfectly polished woman with her dream career, an aesthetic apartment, and a fiancé who proposed on a mountain in Italy, and thought, I should have my shit together like her? Yeah, we’ve all been there. But here’s the truth: comparison is a confidence killer, and it’s time to stop.

Feeling lost in your 30s? Doubting your decisions? Sick of waiting for confidence to magically appear? You’re not alone. You feel like you should have your shit together by now, like confidence should come naturally and yet, here you are, second-guessing yourself, avoiding risks, and watching others live the life you wish you had. That ends today.