If your breakup ended with a bunch of unanswered questions that are stopping you from living your life and keeping you stuck in the loop of “I wonder what he’s up to now…”, I want you to know this: You don’t need closure from him. You don’t need to ask him why. You don’t need to send that one last message. What you do need is a no-BS game plan to stop dwelling on what happened and start getting tf over this breakup. And that’s exactly what this blog post is.

If you’re still thinking about the ex who played games with your emotions, love-bombed the hell out of you, and then casually dipped when it suited him, I see you. I know it feels like you're never going to get over it. But you will. And it starts with asking yourself better questions. Questions that raise your standards and rebuild your self-worth so powerfully that you never even entertain the idea of going back if he ever comes crawling back. Let me show you how I know this works…