buying into “I’m behind”? That ends now.
You’re just getting started.
Society lied to you. There’s no deadline, no rulebook, and no reason to settle for less than you deserve just because you’ve reached your 30s and still haven’t ticked off the milestones (you know the ones: engagement, marriage, baby, homeowner). It’s time to stop doubting your worth, start owning your power, and unapologetically create the life you *actually* want to live. Ready? LFG.
stop settling for "ok"
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raise your standards
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become the love of your life
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stop settling for "ok" • raise your standards • become the love of your life •
ready to make your 30s the most empowering decade of your life?
It’s time to drop the “I’m behind” thinking, raise the standards for all areas of your life, stop giving af about what anyone else thinks and break up with the idea that you have to settle for “ok”. Trust me, you don’t.
meet your mentor
Hi, I’m Rebecca Hawkes
Confidence Coach, Podcaster and walking proof that you can hit rock bottom and still bounce tf back higher than ever.
At 18, I was too scared to leave my house. By 20, I was backpacking around the world solo. I lived in Thailand for a year, Australia for two and when I moved to Honduras for 18 months in 2017, I started my online business, first as a SMM then a Confidence Coach.
Fast forward to 29: I’m back in the UK, my 5 year relationship ended out of nowhere, I’m living with my mum, my younger brother’s just announced his engagement and my best mate’s told me he’s having a baby. And if that wasn’t enough to make me feel more behind in life than ever, the pandemic happened so this adventuring Sagittarius had no way out.
Yet, as I enter my 34th year and find myself still in the UK (single & still living with mum, by choice), I’ve never felt more confident in myself, more comfortable in my own skin, or more grateful for the life I’ve created for myself. Over the past 5 years I’ve watched friends buy houses, have babies, get engaged, and my brother get married and have kids, yet the thoughts of “I’m behind” or “it’s too late for me” are long gone.
My secret? Unshakable self-worth, standards worth sticking to, a refusal to settle for something (or someone) I don’t truly want and a deep sense of self love. The truth is, I became the love of my life so whilst I trust that my Nobody Wants This relationship is destined for my future, I’m not so obsessed with the timeline that I can’t enjoy my present.
Everything on my vision board is destined to become my reality so why tf would I stress about when it’s going to be here when I know it’s going to be here? And if you’re after that energy too, you’re in the right place.
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1:1 Coaching
A profound mentorship experience for those looking to align with their highest timeline, call in their manifestations, & unblock limiting narratives.
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Online Courses
A profound mentorship experience for those looking to align with their highest timeline, call in their manifestations, & unblock limiting narratives.
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There’s a version of you out there who already has everything you’re craving. She’s walking into rooms feeling magnetic, grounded, calm, and proud of who she is. She’s not waiting for life to happen, she’s already living it. But here's the thing most people won't tell you: that version of you isn't “out there” in the future. She’s already within you.