You don’t have to wait for the big milestones to start living your best life. You don’t have to wait until you’re married, until you’ve bought a house, until you’ve had children, or until you’ve travelled to 40 countries. You don’t have to wait until you’ve hit any kind of milestone to start living a life you love, a life you’re obsessed with, a life that feels good every single day.

I know myself well enough to know I’m not gonna stick to this five-year plan, but sometimes having one anyway just makes me feel good about myself. I’m sharing how I’ve used my five-year vision to map out an actionable plan that feels exciting, doable, and not overwhelming (even with ADHD).

One of my absolute favourite exercises is vision building. And to make sure I don’t wake up at 40 thinking, oh my god, why has my life not changed in the last five years?, I’m creating a brand new five-year vision to anchor me into the future I want. And because I know I’m not the only one who feels like this (aka scared of being stuck in the same place) I’m taking you along with me in this process.

It feels a little bit scary admitting this, but honestly? I am scared that nothing will change in the next five years. I realised the other day that in five and a half years’ time, I’ll be 40. And if I think about where my life is right now, if I got to 40 and it was exactly the same as it is now, I’m terrified.